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thesystemdiedhonestly it seems all pretty futile to me.
So we have this system friend that was really cool when we met them. It was the height of popularity of epic the musical and we shared quite a few sourcemates for it. Eventually two of them got into relations. it was sweet, it was cute, talked all the time, called all the time. Then another two got into relations. Okay, thats two, more than one. They were also sweet, cute, talked often. And then again, another relationship. It all sticked within epic the musical alter (and greek mythology.)
(Ours) Hermes with ody.
(Ours) Calypsos with (a different)Odysseus.
And (ours) Dionysus with Apollo.
It was good, it was great, it was awesome for them. Then it just stopped. Everything stopped. They all stopped showing up. The talking and reaching out stopped happening. And whatever connection was there just shriveled up. Its honestly hurting the 3 a lot. Dionysus is taking it the hardest since hes a frequent fronter.
This "friend" we made is simply just ours, we aren't theirs and its very obvious. They only reach out when they need to vent, feel lonely, or feel like they have No One else to talk to. We aren't a friend, we aren't even second option, we're a "well i have nothing else so i guess this is good enough." And i don't know what we want to do about it because it's not only affecting the big three but all of us because we already don't have friends as is a crave a simple connection.
And and one last thing. I and amsel have suspicions that they've pushed far from us so much so that they don't want us simply getting into a shared interest. When We mentioned wanting to watch The Pitt their first reaction was: "oh i don't think its something you would like."
Which, common we watch house first of all, second it VERY much seemed like something we would like, and tired we definitely liked it.
Im just stumped on what to do. I cant cut them off, thats not fair to the big three, i could confront them but i don't even know how i would, and besides i don't really want to be friends with someone like that.
- Dennis
So we have this system friend that was really cool when we met them. It was the height of popularity of epic the musical and we shared quite a few sourcemates for it. Eventually two of them got into relations. it was sweet, it was cute, talked all the time, called all the time. Then another two got into relations. Okay, thats two, more than one. They were also sweet, cute, talked often. And then again, another relationship. It all sticked within epic the musical alter (and greek mythology.)
(Ours) Hermes with ody.
(Ours) Calypsos with (a different)Odysseus.
And (ours) Dionysus with Apollo.
It was good, it was great, it was awesome for them. Then it just stopped. Everything stopped. They all stopped showing up. The talking and reaching out stopped happening. And whatever connection was there just shriveled up. Its honestly hurting the 3 a lot. Dionysus is taking it the hardest since hes a frequent fronter.
This "friend" we made is simply just ours, we aren't theirs and its very obvious. They only reach out when they need to vent, feel lonely, or feel like they have No One else to talk to. We aren't a friend, we aren't even second option, we're a "well i have nothing else so i guess this is good enough." And i don't know what we want to do about it because it's not only affecting the big three but all of us because we already don't have friends as is a crave a simple connection.
And and one last thing. I and amsel have suspicions that they've pushed far from us so much so that they don't want us simply getting into a shared interest. When We mentioned wanting to watch The Pitt their first reaction was: "oh i don't think its something you would like."
Which, common we watch house first of all, second it VERY much seemed like something we would like, and tired we definitely liked it.
Im just stumped on what to do. I cant cut them off, thats not fair to the big three, i could confront them but i don't even know how i would, and besides i don't really want to be friends with someone like that.
- Dennis
